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In life there will be moments for us all where it feels like we are being led in multiple directions with multiple possible outcomes leaving us unsure which path is actually the best course for us. In these moments rather than thinking ourselves into an anxiety ridden space the most beneficial thing you can do is drop into your heart and seek guidance from your heart center.

Even if the best guidance your heart can give you is to sit tight and give yourself more time the heart can offer you freedom from worry which the mind can seldom do. Feel your way into clarity.

By honoring your heart in any given moment you can trust that you are leading at the very least from a space of sincerity. To be sincere assures you that even if you are in environments that are less than your highest good you’ve given your heart the space and freedom to speak it’s truth, which is essential for a life filled with peace and growth. And given the room to speak it’s truth and enough time to feel it’s way through any situation the heart will always lead you to where it is actually mean to be in the long run.

Presence is one of the most beneficial gifts you can give yourself. For when you allow your mind to wander too far into the past or too far into the future you muddy the waters of clear consciousness with anxiety. From a space of anxiety it becomes exceptionally easy to make impulsive decisions that later leave you questioning their validity. It also makes it quite easy to miss the signs and messages being sent your way by the universe carrying the validation you seek. From a place of presence you allow the mind to step back and the heart to take the lead. From this place of presence is where we manifest the path in front of us into something fulfilling and worthwhile. Getting carried away from ourselves fills the path with bumps and uneven terrain.

In all relationships, whether blood, platonic, romantic and even the one you’re in with yourself it is crucial to check in with your heart frequently and see where your happiness lies. Is the happiness coming from your heart so strong that there’s no question about where you belong, or do feelings arise that leave you wondering if perhaps there is something more resonate to discover elsewhere? In either case your heart will almost always be honest and transparent with you. The thing is to listen to the guidance you receive without stepping into combative or anxiety ridden energy by thinking the situation the death. The moment you begin to overthink about a situation is the moment you begin to lose sight of what it is you’re actually feeling, so be mindful of muddying the waters!


When you are an individual with a big sense of purpose or determination, frustration can arise when it seems like the timing of the world doesn’t align with your plans and visions of how you think your current reality should look and feel.

In order to truly find yourself in a place of fulfillment where everything aligns as it is meant to it is crucial to release the need for control. Our sense of timing tends to be flawed since it’s our human nature to want to rush headlong into the next moment. However, it is divine timing that will land you in a space of serenity.

Trust with certainty that when the soul has certain pathways to fulfill in its lifetime the universe will shift all environments, situations and mindsets necessary to bring it to life. The timing is irrelevant. When something is meant to be it will be, it’s that simple. Just as when a seed is meant to bloom into a flower it will, and not a moment before.

Surrender to the moment and make a practice out of living with presence. Anxiety stems from focusing too much on the future or living too much in the past. Remember, you can’t control either anyway, but from a place of presence you actively manifest the next step needed on your journey forwards.

You will bloom into all that you are meant to be in the exact right moments to give you the exact opportunities predestined for your soul. Release all fear about you being skipped or your story being forgotten. Spirit is infinite and will never neglect a purposeful soul. However, in order for Spirit to really do its work and fill the empty spaces of uncertainty in your world with joy you must be willing to trust unconditionally in the forces of love bigger than yourself. There is no room for doubt in the game of destiny.


The cloak manifests within our being as forms of self preservation. When we feel uncertain or insecure about relationships and their validity in our world it can be easy to cloak ourselves to hide our vulnerability and lessen the chance of finding ourselves hurt or disappointed.

In order to experience real peace, love and fulfillment in our personal lives it becomes essential to drop the cloak and embrace the vulnerability it takes to become close to another. Experiencing true love is worth any risk but the hold of fear can keep you from truly diving in to the experiences your heart and soul are longing for.

The key here is to learn to stand fully in self trust, for there is nothing to fear when you know that even in a vulnerable space you will stand behind yourself above all else. When you know that you have your wholehearted support no matter what events unfold around you it becomes safe to explore the unknown, because even in the face of disappointment your essence of self remains intact.

In this life we must be willing to stand with open arms and embrace fully whatever forms of life and love our drawn into our path. Self preservation leads to isolation and longing while vulnerability leads to deeper understanding of the self and those whom you cherish.

If you find yourself looking at the relationships in your life and wondering which ones really offer you sincere love and are meant to be apart of your world then vulnerability becomes an even bigger necessity.

We will never know exactly who speaks the same language of our soul unless we are willing to show who we are openly and authentically. This makes it very obvious who speaks the same language and who we just find ourselves lost in translation with. In either case to know for sure the cloak of protection must be shed and vulnerability must be embraced. Be open to experience, be open to love, be open to life.

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