LET THE FEMININE LEAD THE WAY

Sometimes we think it is better to let our Masculine energy take the lead in our endeavors. We try to force things to happen and exert our control over the way situations in our life begin to unfold. There is a much softer way to get results that are much more beneficial. Tune into your feminine energy and let it be your guide. We do this by honoring our sensitivity, listening to our intuition, trusting in something bigger than ourselves and flowing rather than trying to swim against the current.

There will be moments and situations that unfold that you simply cannot wrap your mind around. This is the time to tune into your heart, your sensitivity. Your heart can lead you places that lie in a restless minds blind spot. What do you feel? It’s important to make sure you always ask yourself.

Intuition is a gift given to us all. It lies in wait giving us gentle nudges until the moment we finally decide to acknowledge the little voice coming from within. The more we acknowledge the little voice the louder and louder it becomes until we fully recognize it as an integral part of our beings. Intuition can create a river on your life’s path for you to flow effortlessly through. Even when obstacles appear you’ll have the wisdom and insight to flow around it.

Trust is key in reaching fulfillment. In every manifesting period you get to a point where physically you can do no more and you must surrender your faith into the universe for it to do its part. This is the most crucial part of manifestation. By handing your dream over to the universe and saying “okay, you take care of the rest” you are declaring your oneness with the divine itself as well as showing your understanding that things will work out to your highest good.

Flow over force is always the wisest and least depleting choice. When we try to force things we often get lured into a tunnel vision which keeps us from noticing important messages and tips from the divine. When we flow we see all that we are meant to. Our messages can easily find their way to us because they no longer have to fight to be seen amongst the chaos.

Some ways to balance your feminine energy are:

*working with the colors black & silver

*meditation or yoga

*dance

*journaling

*adorning yourself with jewelry or clothing that makes you feel your most powerful

*spending time in nature

INTIMACY

Intimacy comes in many forms. One thing that is for certain is that intimacy walks hand in hand in vulnerability. To experience true intimacy you must be willing to let the walls of protection you’ve built around your heart crumble. You must be willing to give love as well as be willing to receive love. Sounds simple enough but in truth many people find giving love safer than receiving love. They find comfort in giving to others but a deep fear in letting anyone get too close to themselves out of fear of mishandling or betrayal.

Yes vulnerability does put us at the risk of having our hearts mishandled but it puts us at even greater risk at experiencing everything we’ve ever longed for. We must ask ourselves if love if not worth the risk, then what is?

Intimacy in truth is a foreign concept to many as

there is a misbelief that sex equates to intimacy.

Intimacy is tenderness, understanding, openness, trust and wild abandon. All of these can exist in a multitude of things besides sexual intercourse. It’s experiencing these things outside of sex that brings intimacy into sex. You can easily undress someone and allow your bodies to join together. But if you cannot laugh easily with that person, cry freely, be your most authentic self and share the parts of you you keep hidden from the rest of the world, then you are not being intimate.

Take some time to discover some new ways that you might like to make love without the obligation of sex.

The language of love is infinite & it is quite possible to make love all day long without shedding a single layer of clothes.

Some of my favorite ways to make love are

*dancing

*exploring new places

*trying & sharing new treats

*looking into each other’s eyes

*listening & being listened to

*driving & listening to music

*observing nature

*sharing a joint

*back rubs

*reading beneath a tree

*treasure hunts at the thrift store

*sending each other new music

*writing love poetry

DROP INTO YOUR HEART

Whether you are experiencing moments of the utmost bliss or moments of extreme sadness and frustration the first place you visit should always be within your own heart. It’s crucial to allow yourself to fully experience every moment of existence, even and especially the moments we would rather bypass.

Allowing ourselves to feel is how we allow ourselves to heal and grow. While it is easier to ty to make ourselves forget unpleasant situations and to numb ourselves to them when we do this they have a tendency to spring up in our psyche unannounced. This leads to inexplainable emotional discomfort and the tendency for projection onto our unsuspecting loved ones.

Cry if you need to. Run, rage or dance if you need to but don’t stifle what you feel. Allow yourself to sit in your heart and offer whatever is troubling you to the divine. Ask for assistance or assurance. Ask to see the truth and higher perspective of the situation. Always ask for both the lesson and the blessing.

In moments of happiness it is equally important to drop into your heart and offer what’s there to the divine. Show your grace at having received your blessings and ask for assistance in maintaining your peace. Ask for the patience to stay present in the moment before you begin seeking the next thrill of happiness.

When in doubt quiet the mind & let your heart speak. The heart is your window to the divine.